HOW TO FIND OUT IF HE IS THE ONE

MOREBLESSING PHIRI

In a love journey, we meet many prospects. Some of which one may have non-committal, fleeting encounters with, such as one-night-stands and flings. Some may be unrequited loves. Some may be cheats. Some may be toxic and abusive partners. Some may leave your heart fluttering, only for the feelings to die off. On the other hand, some may be solid individuals with great personalities, great minds, and a genuine interest in you. They may make you wonder, Is he/she “the one”?

No one tells you if the person you are dating is the one or not, you must arrive at that decision yourself. Some of the pointers to help you to find out that he is the one.  The person must love you unconditional. He/she does not judge you, compare you with others, or criticize you because he/she understands you are a unique individual. He/she celebrates everything about you and sees beauty even in places where you do not see it.

Furthermore, you must be yourself when you are around him.  Be it being goofy, crazy, kid- dish, wimpy, sulky, or morose, you can be all these and more in front of him/her without worry about judgment. Is he/she there for you in times of need? Your one should be the one who’s always there for you, day or night, rain or shine. He/she will never leave you to face your problems alone. He/she cares for you deeply.

 Your one should make you happy. When you are with him/her, you are constantly smiling, laughing, and happy. When you think about him/her, you smile, not cry. Even if you cry, you are shedding tears of happiness not sorrow. While there may be conflicts at times, they are quickly resolved and not dragged out into weeks. Your happy times together far outweigh any unhappy moments. He/she is, without a doubt, a positive light in your life.

Your one should be someone you are excited to see every time even when you have just meet. You can never wait till you meet again because no meeting is too soon between people who love each other. You always make time to meet him/her even in your busiest times because that’s how important he/she is to you. Your one should inspire you to be more than you can be. Being with him/her elevates you rather than holds you down When you are with him/her, you feel like a better man/woman and you want to be even better for him/her, as well as for yourself.

 There is no relationship without love. Your one should be someone you love unconditionally. Your love is not contingent of his/her good looks, personal success, wealth, family background, social status, or career accomplishments. Your one should be someone you see yourself with forever, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness, or in health. No matter what happens, you will stick with him/her and stand by his/her side.

 

Youtube video link : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gmnPfAWz7vA

   Title:  Are you two the perfect match.

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